Oct. 20, 2026 Tuesday
They both were blessed by a comparatively long stint on this planet, with fairly good health - Antony sir suffered acute illness in the last two to four weeks of his life, where as Aunt Alice had an ordeal of almost 2 years plus to suffer.
While Antony sir appeared a sober figure, with a concealed smile behind his normal demeanour, I guess Aunt Alice had a constant good humour, able to engage people in continued conversation. I got to see her and speak to her only after she had become bedridden, though she might have been in the congregation all those years I was serving at Thevara monastery.
I deem it a great honour that today, I am asked to share the word of God, in their remembrance. Antony sir is known to me for 48 years, from 1977 onwards. I was fortunate enough to be in the school when he taught, but never had the good fortune to be in his class, as I was in the High School and his teaching engagement was with the Upper Primary School. But we hardly had any conversation in those days. However, his own 'compatriot' from Kumbalam desam, Mr Jose K Antony, was a very familiar figure for me, with his active involvement with students in promoting art and culture.
After a long gap of 30 years, when I came to Thevara as a resident, I met Antony sir again - now as the Head Master for the Sunday School of the monastery eucharistic community. I think he continued that for a couple of years more, almost into his 80th birthday, and then retired. So he must have been one of the longest serving Sunday School teachers of Ernakulam arch-diocese, perhaps, doing that for almost 50 years, in two parishes (Kumbalam and Konthuruthy).
His association with us CMIs is manifold. The family, can very well be named a CMI family. He got employed with the CMI school of Thevara, as a young man, and served SH school for almost 35 years. All his four boys (Jose, Davis, Babichan and Johny) had their schooling at the SH CMI school, all children, including the lone daughter Mercy, studied at SH college for some programme or other.
We connect with him also as the brother in law of our Gurushreshtan, Rev. Fr. George Earathara, who, in his prime was a terrific animator of youth (KCSL fame), a great organiser (POC director) and a spirited fighter for justice in all realms, including issues within the congregation.
Then from 1989, Babichan, who happens to be my batchmate in SH school, joined hands with Rev. Dr. Varghese Puthussery in running Santwana Counselling Centre, first of its kind in Kochi, and still continues to be its one man army. Babichan's children are also our school/college students.
Johny, the youngest son, joined the CMIs in 1988 and is one of the few CMIs having a Ph D in computer science, besides his reputation for being a welcoming host and contagious humour with a repertoire of jokes for all times.
His devotion to his parents while I happened to be a member of the Sitapur CMI community under his leadership, stands as an indicator of the parent-children bond of the family. He was deeply attached to them, and tried to spend quality time in their time of distress, and had to really make much effort to get over the gap created by their departure.
Antony sir is known to have been a strict but effective teacher, who could recall the name of his students even after decades. He taught basic Math and English in the school, and his short-cane served to instill desirable discipline in the students - I sensed that nobody had any ill feeling towards him.
With the family shifting to Thevara on account of the land acquisition for Alappuzha railway line, he became a blessing to Thevara. Guiding the Sunday School catechism for over a decade, and then quietly disappearing into retirement. While he was at the school retiring as its Head Master (UP section) and in his stint with the Sunday School, he let his team to take initiative and lead, while he remained available and supportive. While he stuck to his principles, he never tried to impose them on others. He was marked for his integrity, and he took all steps to fulfil his responsibilities to the best of his ability.
At home, he appeared to have been a loving father, who could instill discipline and devotion in his children without being severe or strict. The greatest credit to the couple is that they were successful missionaries who established a 'domestic church' (Ecclesia Domestica), and like the tree of Psalm 1, planted on the river, that bore leaves and fruits in its season, they did bear abundant fruit.
The archdiocese of Ernakulam has benefitted immensely from the integrity of this trustworthy member - the diocesan accounts of the parish contributions were managed by him for almost 2 decades, in a meticulous, but endearing fashion. Thus his is a household name among the priests of the archdiocese.
Today's first reading aptly recognizes such local saints: Then I heard a voice from heaven say, “Write this: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.” “Yes,” says the Spirit, “they will rest from their labor, for their deeds will follow them.” (Rev. 14:13)
May the hopeful aspiration of the Psalmist find fulfilment in their lives:
Return to your rest, my soul, for the Lord has been good to you. 8 For you, Lord, have delivered me from death, my eyes from tears, my feet from stumbling, 9 that I may walk before the Lord in the land of the living... 15 Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants. 16 Truly I am your servant, Lord; I serve you just as my mother did; you have freed me from my chains. (Ps. 116:7-9; 15-16)


